Hi, I'm Jenny and I was a cookbook lover before
cookbooks were cool - doesn't that remind you of a song? When
I first started The Cookbook Junkies over a decade ago - it was
slow going. Comments such as "why do we need cookbooks when recipes
are online?" "you don't need them, they just take up space" were
tossed around by friends and family (and even some members). Then
magically, membership exploded in the group, all the food sites
were posting about cookbooks and everything was right in my world -
everyone agreed we need cookbooks. We want to
hold them in our hands, turn pages and dream of far away places, be
inspired by the dishes and stories, and most importantly to feed
and nurture our family and friends.
From as early as I can remember - I have had an affinity for
books. Books were an escape from parents that didn't allow me to
have friends or be out of the vicinity of their twisted judgment
and controlling minds. Gone with the Wind was the one book I owned.
I read it over a hundred times - I would lose myself in those worn
pages and it is one thing I still own from my early childhood -
that tattered copy.
My love of cookbooks bloomed when I was a teenager. I graduated high school at seventeen, moved out of mother's home and was working full time for an oncologist. To earn extra money, I started babysitting for the Doctor and his wife. On those nights of babysitting the girls and doing my laundry, I remember the great leftovers that could be found in their fridge. I had never eaten anything that tasted like those leftovers - seafood and different vegetables - ingredients that were foreign to me.
My mom wasn't much of a cook. Never was there anything exotic in her rotation of chicken, meatloaf, spaghetti - and by no means were there any fresh herbs or spices in those dishes. Her ingredients of choice were always Ragu and copious amounts of salt. I do remember she made great homemade fries….fried things were her specialty. It's hard to mess up french fries. There wasn't money to go to a restaurant or even order take out, so I was under the impression that food was genuinely bland and flavorless, processed and frozen.
When the doctor's wife went through her cookbooks to thin them out - she gave me a stack. She was my gateway to becoming a cookbook junkie. I still have one of those books - Miss Hullings' Cookbook. Miss Hullings' Restaurant was a famous restaurant in St. Louis, my hometown. One of my first jobs in St. Louis, after the doctor, was for a law firm and my boss was like a father figure and would take me to lunch at Miss Hullings and the French Onion Soup - was incredible. Trips to Charlie Gitto's on the Hill with other office staff were a treat as well. The first time I had pesce there I was blown away and then toasted ravioli - I thought I hit the big time.
Cooking became a therapy for me - a way to connect
with people and something I was really good at with no training
save those those cast off cookbooks I held onto. Now when I look at
my shelves of cookbooks, I see a world of possibilities. I see
travel to other countries, a connectivity to other cultures and
people and a true love of the written word. Do these books fill our
house? Yes, but I don't see them as clutter - I see them as
opportunities. Surrounded by cookbooks and things I love (I have a
little problem with French cookware as well), I feel like I belong
to something. It may come from a background of being abused and
doing without for so much of my early life - but having these
things bring me comfort. There are not stacks of newspapers or
magazines lying about or herds of cats roaming the house, just
shelves of books and a few stacks as well. Life is fleeting and if
we do not surrounded ourselves with things and people we love -
what purpose is there? As my bio here at Eat Your Books states,
"She spends her time writing, cooking, baking and hoping that
she isn't discovered under a pile of cookbooks. Her tombstone will
read "she was always buried in cookbooks."
A few months ago I wrote about the contributing factors that make a good
cookbook and came across it again which spurred me to
share this re-hash of a post I shared on my blog. I am also sharing
the piece on The Cookbook Junkies from the Parker paper to explain why my little group of
42,000 cookbook lovers means so much to me and now my cookbook
family has grown through Eat Your Books. Facebook statuses remind
me of the connections I've made through food and cooking and also
re-affirm that people who love to cook are good people.
What is your cookbook story? How did you begin down this delicious
road? How many cookbooks do you have? I am working on a project and
would love to collect as many stories as I can. I would so
appreciate your comments here. Enjoy your weekend and cook
something great for those you love.
CookShelf
45 comments
IslandgirlOK
darcie_b
marcsch
jahqdruh
Rosesrpink50
Lavnder
AlisonL
traculart
obbigttam
Anyway I can remember I was about 5 or 6 when mum wanted to learn how to cook other things than the standard fare of Australia in the 70's. She took a TAFE course on Chinese cooking and as part of the course they gave her the recipe cookbook (I have it now) and after finishing that course she fell in love with Asian food. Charmaine Solomon's Complete Asian Cookbook was a staple and she got into the habit of writing notes on the recipes after cooking them, a habit I fell into as well. When I left at 17 to join the army I started my collecting with Time Life, cookbooks from Spain, Portugal and of course Asia (including other Charmaine Solomon books). I found on later visits home to mum that she had continued to expand her collection over the years too, but on a smaller scale. For my 40th birthday she got me a copy of Solomon's Complete Asian Cookbook, which funnily enough I had never bought myself and it seemed to be the completion of a circle to me.
I continue to collect from around the world, travelling the planet on a plate with friends and family that I cook for. Devouring the introductions for the story of the author, or what inspired them to put this particular collection together - even better are the books that are setup where each chapter is from a different region or country with a story about the people and the place. My love of food is so great that I took on an adult apprenticeship to be a chef, a process that almost destroyed my love of cooking due to what I saw and went through. I left that after 2 years safe in the knowledge that being a chef was something I could never do, as my love of cooking comes from being able to watch the joy on people's faces when I've done well in the kitchen - as a chef you see nothing but kitchen walls and other chefs most of the time.
When my mother died I inherited all her cookbooks and they became a window to visit the memories, for in every book were notes written in her hand and a lot had notes from both of us on recipes - sometimes agreeing and sometimes different. It's another thing that I love about cookbooks, in that they are like paper time machines. They can link you with memories from the past whether that be people or events, you can pick up old books and visit a time where food was presented in a different style, or years that certain foods or cuisines were on trend/fashionable/taboo. If you have books from different countries through different timeframes you can sometimes see how the culture of that country changes through time.
Cookbooks are a pleasure and can bring laughter or tears through the memories they provide, they can bring absolute joy when you've tried new things, cooked with love and shared that with your friends and family. I have a saying that my friends and family have gotten used to "When my table is silent bar the sound of cutlery and chewing I know I've done well. When there is chatter and laughter I wonder what I've done wrong." I have old and new, soft and hardcover, culinary bibles and esoteric tomes and will probably collect and cook until the carry me feet first out the door lol.
Jerry77360
FunkyViriditas
My dad and his mom were great cooks and bakers. Luckily, it turns out that I inherited the same gene. Once I realized that people loved my food, I started buying (mostly used) cookbooks like a fiend. In a few years, I have almost 500. I've had to put the brakes on though because I just don't have the space. Still, every year, on my birthday, my favorite thing to do is to go cookbook shopping!
southerncooker
JuliaBalbilla
Like you, I left home at 17 and bought my first cookery books - Modern Vegetarian Cookery by Walter & Jenny Fleiss and Anna Thomas' The Vegetarian Epicure. I then acquired a meat-eating boyfriend, so I bought Elizabeth David's French Country Cooking. Over the years my collection has expanded to more than 800 books and is continuing to grow. They cover many countries and cooking styles ranging from Mrs Beeton to Nathan Myhrvold and I love them all.
ChefDoone
smiddleton
monique.potel
i am particularly attracted towards cuisine from different parts of the world and discovering new ways of using food i think it is very revealing of the different cultures their spices and techniques show their relationship with other food most of the time is sharing and i truly believe that if we all exchanged better on food we probably would have less violence and war i do not think you can hate your neighbour when you know more about him i am really convinced that all the violence comes from being afraid of the unknown. Through all of this I have become a decent cook self taught and eat your books and cookbook junkies have made me feel I was part of a great community and its just been a great motivator to continue
gracieanne
My Mother was a wonderful cook, every bit as skilled as my Aunt..but cooking was not her first love, gardening was. So she was more than happy to let me cook my little heart out. I made our evening meal almost every day. When I was 12, I made my first Thanksgiving turkey, not from a written recipe but with my Mother talking me through the process. I would read my Mother's cookbooks until I knew them by heart and when I needed to understand a technique she would teach it to me. By the time I got to home economics I could cook better than my teacher. As a non-athlete it was a wonder to me that I was always the first one chosen to be on a kitchen unit. My group always got an A. And that class was where I got my very own cookbooks...home economic teachers had a series of favorite recipe books on a variety of subjects and my Mother, bless her heart, bought me the whole set. It was the beginning of my collection.
Through the years my Mom and my Aunt continued to share my adventure through many books from many countries and subjects. I treasure the family favorites they taught me as well as the techniques they shared. And I have learned they were rather classically correct..giving me a great basis to work from. There are few recipes I make that do not use something they taught to me. My Mother's specialty was bread and pies so I have more bread and pie cookbooks than I really need. My Aunt was the queen of sauces so there are more than a few of those cookbooks in my collection. Not sure who I can give credit to for the addition of the rest of my books but I do give thanks for a great husband who understands why I need more of them.
When I teach my granddaughters how to cook my voice is sharing all those wonderful words from my Mother and Aunt..sharing the skills with a new generation. I love to see the pleasure in their eyes when I hand them their own copy of one of our favorite books. I think one of the most special moments as a collector for me was at Christmas. I gave my granddaughter a book I thought she wanted and she did not react the way I expected her to. I asked her if I had gotten the wrong book and she hesitated and then asked..Grandma could I trade you my new copy for your old one..it feels so much better. She is a "natural" too.
pvia
Kristjudy
debpiper
Prohlp01
When I was first married, I was armed with Betty Crocker and a copy of the Maine Rebeccas Cookbook, a few Wisconsin Electric Power Co. Christmas Cookie Books, and a couple of Culinary Institute single subject paper cookbooks, I think I had taken Italian and Meats from my mom's collection of those. Betty Crocker, and recipes that I had grown up with pretty much got me through those first couple years.
Daughter # 1 came along, and I became a stay at home mom--and I started expanding my collection, first by signing up for the Time Life Foods of the World Series. What a treat that was, and I still have them all! Well, that opened a whole new world, and I am still acquiring and cooking out of them at 69! I had a career after my child raising days, as a librarian, and even that easy access didn't stop me from still wanting to own them. Now retired, I manage to borrow everything new that is purchased by my local large library system, as well as oldies that I want to revisit or hear about for the first time. I still purchase them, locally while traveling, at Resale shops, estate sales, on Amazon, used and new, and from bookstores, and cookware shops, museums and festivals!
I have no idea how many I have and am currently listing them on Eat Your Books, what a great idea!
Thank you,
Pat
lgroom
As the oldest of eight kids, I learned the rudiments of cooking and baking at a young age. We were a very rural farm family and being responsible for producing platters of fried eggs and potatoes, side pork or some kind of a hunk of critter was just something I learned to do. In about seventh or eighth grade, I checked out a cookbook from the library entitled something like "Teens Cook" or "Entertaining for Teens." It was from there I learned how to set a table and about stuff like courses. I remember my mom letting me cook a meal from it one night and that we didn't eat until ten o'clock. I had some unhappy siblings. They still remind me about this.
I went to college and majored in English and minored in library science. I met a hunky Joe and we got married a week after I graduated. He got his master's degree and then we joined the Peace Corps. I became a librarian in Yemen (yes this is true) and Hunky, who was a cross country star, became a member of the Hash House Harriers, an international running group, They planned long elaborate runs and the big deal afterwards were the massive spreads put on. So I calmly did this. I became known as the chef extraordinaire and would calmly prepare spreads for 70-80 folks.
We ended up staying as USAID workers for a few years. I ate at the homes of Yemenis, Indians, Phillapinos, Egyptians and all sorts of ex-pats. If there was ever a party that needed to be thrown, I threw it.
So Hunky and I came back to the States and I got my Masters degree in Library Science. I continued to throw parties but of course, now I was able to get books about any culture I wanted and experimented with all types of cuisine. I also worked at one of Milwaukee;s best delis, Glorioso's, and got to learn some cool tricks from the best of Italian cooks on the planet.
Hunky caught on to the fact that I wasn't always going to look like I did in my twenties and took off to engage in what seems to be an endless string of relationships with those who are in their mid-twenties. I moved back home when my parents needed help and am the one who hosts the family gigs. I love to read cookbooks and food memoirs and l reading about food stuff to be the best entertainment there is.
vickster
PegMallon
Lem9579
mjmoocow
manycookbooks
So I got on the Guinness site and sure enough, somebody named Betsy Ross McKay somewhere in the U.S. had, in 2011, 1125 cookbooks. So I said, I've got that many, I can do this." I invited two "witnesses" over to count the books: a local chef and a local bookstore owner. The total number of items were 3,231, however, due to Guinness rules, some had to be eliminated. The final official tally was 2,790 cookbooks and in November, 2013 I was awarded the Guinness World Record for largest collection of cookbooks.
The collection was my second. My first one comprising about 1,000 books was donated to our local library for a variety of reasons, although it broke my heart. As soon as I had gainful employment and a little cash, I began collecting again. The collection has grown somewhat since 2013 and now numbers 5,758. I have been accused of being a mere "hoarder", which I think is untrue. I love my cookbooks and read them like other people read fiction (I don't "do" fiction". I also love cooking (and my husband loves eating). Cookbooks tell us so much about social customs, trends and fads, people, cultures and history. A cookbook is more than just recipes (although these come in pretty handy too!). For me, there is no comparison to surfing the internet for a recipe, when you can hold history in your hands and turn the pages. EYB has been a terrific site for me and we share 4,915 books in common. Keep up the good work, EYB!
mama_c
Sharmiro
Bjean
Teruska
Jane
lkgrover
Jenny
Jane
okmosa
Footnote: I've been so excited about Eat Your Books over the last few years for me to be able to reengage with my cookbooks. I love it! And now I've just found Cookbook Junkies! Yay!!
pokarekare
I received my first cook book as a 21st birthday gift, and by the time I married I had, I kid you not, a suitcase full of recipes cut from newspapers and magazines, plus 2 cookbooks about cooking with herbs and spices. I did start to paste the recipes into exercise books but I couldn't bear to throw out a recipe for, for example, beef Stroganoff, that I hadn't tried - unfortunately I had more than a dozen recipes for this, all slightly different, and the same was true for many many other recipes. I ended up gritting my teeth and throwing them all out. Then I started all over again.
I honestly can't remember how my cook book collection started after that - recipe books and I just seemed to be a natural match! I was interested in gardening and growing herbs so that started a collection of vegetable- and herb-themed cookbooks. I love watching cooking shows so that started another collection of celebrity cookbooks. I love travelling and trying different cuisines, so another collection started there - I have bought a recipe book from every country I have visited except Antarctica, and a few I haven't.
Then, as my mother's generation got older, she and various aunts gave me their precious recipes and favourite cookbooks.
I still collect individual recipes and every winter I sort, purge, catalogue and file them. I know - it's a problem!!! I am not even safe around book stores, second hand book sales or anywhere else where books are being sold or given away. Even so, I only own between 200-300 cookbooks and these only comprise about 10% of my library, so I'm pretty restrained compared to some of you!
cynmcconniel
matag
I was flying home from California a few years back. I had bought a new cookbook on Catalina Island. I was reading it on the plane when the man sitting next to me asked if it was a cookbook that I was reading. Why yes it was. He seemed flabbergasted and said ...well, you are reading it like a novel! I tried to explain to him that if you read a recipe you can tell what it tastes like! He replied, no you can't! I feel sorry for people with closed minds.
Mrs. L
FaithB
At one point I had a flip-book of casseroles, that I fondly remember but somehow lost along the way. But I have pretty much all the rest, some moved across the country and back, and many acquired in more recent years when I've been grounded in the East. I even organized a Crazy For Cookbooks panel with chefs, journalists, and publishers, at the local library in 2015, that was very well attended. Emboldened by my membership in The Cookbook Junkies, my collection is up to around 500 now, and I use Eat Your Books to help me find recipes in them.
Sueskitchen
How this plays into religion and holidays. How food brings people together and how diverse cultures have such similar recipes and food-ways.
It's the story in the cookbook that brings me in. How chefs and cooks bare their souls and tell their stories while sharing recipes. It's really quite personal.
WUVIE
I have always been a very particular eater, but later in life realized all of my food dislikes came not from pickiness, but a particular palate. I hated onions, beans, anything green, beef, and so many other things. Soup was an absolute nightmare, as it meant a can opener, or a pot of milk with fat-ridden bacon, some gooey green beans, and a few potatoes with the eyes snapped off before they surrendered to rot.
Once I grew up and married, cooking became fun. Foods I'd always hated were now appealing, once I understood that unlike Aunt Eva's cooking, eating a roast did not have to mean chewing until your jaw ached. That spices were a good thing. That an onion is not an onion is not an onion, and the same applied to beans.
Though collecting cookbooks was never my intention, happening upon a few great second-hand sales really started the ball rolling. My husband and I found a great storage building with what appeared to be the entire cookbook section of a one-time antique store. The seller noticed I had picked up quite a few books, when she walked over and handed me a gigantic paper bag with handles, the type that one might see during the holidays for shoppers with large purchases. She told me to fill up the bag with as many bags as I could, for $20.00. Needless to say, I scoured the entire stock of books, and picked what I deemed the best. The following weekend, we went back. Sure enough, she offered the same, and again twice more. I now found myself with more books that I could ever cook from, but went to bed every night with one of them, perusing pictures, reading about techniques, and planning which things to cook.
A bit more of a fast-forward found treasures at yard sales, and a local second-hand store with a frequent 'all you can stuff in a bag for $2.00' book sale, which we need not mention the number of times I've visited.
Initially, my husband stated that he did not mind my cookbook collection, as long as I cooked at least one thing from each book. It is apparent I will never be able to catch up, but trying to do so has proven daunting.
This group has made me realize that I am not the only one with a passion, perhaps obsession for all things cookbook. Thank you for adding me.
Karen
adelina
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